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Statement of UCA Theology about Marriage

Acknowledge Disagreements

Informed and Faithful discussion

Marriage Service liturgy is starting point
 * Statement of UCA Theology about Marriage
 * Acknowledge Disagreements
 * Informed and Faithful discussion
 * Marriage Service liturgy is starting point
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Marriage service is a service of worship

Also a witness to promises and commitment
 * Marriage service is a service of worship
 * Also a witness to promises and commitment
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Creation - marriage is the Christian context for procreation

Fall - marriages do fail
 * levels of failure: human joy, human sin, human brokenness

Redemption - marriages can be repaired
 * if not, people can be repaired
 * divorce and remarriage?
 * Creation - marriage is the Christian context for procreation
 * Fall - marriages do fail
   * levels of failure: human joy, human sin, human brokenness
 * Redemption - marriages can be repaired
   * if not, people can be repaired
   * divorce and remarriage?
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divorce is a remedy, not an intrinsic good

to lose sight of the theology of marriage is to lose sight of the Xian view of marriage

NOT Xian!:
 * hostility towards sex
 * assumption of perfect innocence
 * pessimism about or rejection of marriage
 * divorce is a remedy, not an intrinsic good
 * to lose sight of the theology of marriage is to lose sight of the Xian view of marriage
 * NOT Xian!:
   * hostility towards sex
   * assumption of perfect innocence
   * pessimism about or rejection of marriage
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Draws heavily upon Genesis

A profound document - how do we interpret it? Stumbling block, or Milestone, for the human journey?

Adam and Eve

Women as property, cultural issues
 * Draws heavily upon Genesis
 * A profound document - how do we interpret it? Stumbling block, or Milestone, for the human journey?
 * Adam and Eve
 * Women as property, cultural issues
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Xian view: Marriage or Celibacy (celibacy better!) Are these the only two?

Does marriage as "full expression of physical love" (i.e., "good sex") mean that other forms of sex are bad?
 * Xian view: Marriage or Celibacy (celibacy better!) Are these the only two?
 * Does marriage as "full expression of physical love" (i.e., "good sex") mean that other forms of sex are bad?
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Is faithfulness possible? Are these fruitful relationships? Is it about "what's in a name?"  * Is faithfulness possible? Are these fruitful relationships? Is it about "what's in a name?"

Discussion Page on Marriage

JohnHurst contribution to discussion day, 25 Oct 2014

Background

  • Statement of UCA Theology about Marriage
  • Acknowledge Disagreements
  • Informed and Faithful discussion
  • Marriage Service liturgy is starting point
    1. The Gathering
    2. Declaration of Purpose
    3. The Word
    4. The Marriage
    5. Prayers
    6. The Blessing

Here tackle just the first two.

1. The Gathering

  • Marriage service is a service of worship
  • Also a witness to promises and commitment

Doctrine

  • Creation - marriage is the Christian context for procreation
  • Fall - marriages do fail
    • levels of failure: human joy, human sin, human brokenness
  • Redemption - marriages can be repaired
    • if not, people can be repaired
    • divorce and remarriage?

Practical Considerations

  • divorce is a remedy, not an intrinsic good
  • to lose sight of the theology of marriage is to lose sight of the Xian view of marriage
  • NOT Xian!:
    • hostility towards sex
    • assumption of perfect innocence
    • pessimism about or rejection of marriage

Same Sex Marriage

Yes

No

Creation

humans have "hardwired nature"

God created man and woman

Fallenness

all are fallen, none are perfect

same-sex is intrinsically fallen

Redemption

healing and transforming

healing and transforming ( ! )

loving relationships reflect a loving God

discipline of forgiveness

2. The Declaration of Purpose

Biblical Foundation

  • Draws heavily upon Genesis
  • A profound document - how do we interpret it? Stumbling block, or Milestone, for the human journey?
  • Adam and Eve
  • Women as property, cultural issues

Sexual Faithfulness

  • Xian view: Marriage or Celibacy (celibacy better!) Are these the only two?
  • Does marriage as "full expression of physical love" (i.e., "good sex") mean that other forms of sex are bad?

De-facto hetereo- and homo- partnerships

  • Is faithfulness possible? Are these fruitful relationships? Is it about "what's in a name?"

Children and the Purpose of Marriage

Anglican Prayer Book

Uniting Church

1. birth and nurture of children

1. mutual comfort and support

2. safe outlet for lust, NO fornication

2. safe outlet for lust, NO fornication

3. mutual comfort and support

3. birth and nurture of children

Child rearing has been decoupled from marriage through the (birth control) pill.

3. The Word

4. The Marriage

5. Prayers

6. The Blessing


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