Differences between revisions 2 and 7 (spanning 5 versions)
Revision 2 as of 2014-10-24 08:40:26
Size: 2769
Editor: JohnHurst
Comment:
Revision 7 as of 2014-10-25 02:12:31
Size: 2790
Editor: JohnHurst
Comment:
Deletions are marked like this. Additions are marked like this.
Line 2: Line 2:

> DiscussionPages
Line 5: Line 7:
== JohnHurst contribution to discussion day, 25 Oct 2014 == == JohnHurst ==
contribution to discussion day, 25 Oct 2014
Line 9: Line 12:
Statement of UCA Theology about Marriage

Acknowledge Disagreements

Informed and Faithful discussion

Marriage Service liturgy is starting point
 * Statement of UCA Theology about Marriage
 * Acknowledge Disagreements
 * Informed and Faithful discussion
 * Marriage Service liturgy is starting point
Line 22: Line 22:
Line 26: Line 27:
Marriage service is a service of worship  * Marriage service is a service of worship
 * Also a witness to promises and commitment
Line 28: Line 30:
Also a witness to promises and commitment == Doctrine ==
Line 30: Line 32:
==== Doctrine ====  * Creation - marriage is the Christian context for procreation
 * Fall - marriages do fail
   * levels of failure: human joy, human sin, human brokenness
 * Redemption - marriages can be repaired
   * if not, people can be repaired
   * divorce and remarriage?
Line 32: Line 39:
Creation - marriage is the Christian context for procreation == Practical Considerations ==
Line 34: Line 41:
Fall - marriages do fail
 * levels of failure: human joy, human sin, human brokenness
 * divorce is a remedy, not an intrinsic good
 * to lose sight of the theology of marriage is to lose sight of the Xian view of marriage
 * NOT Xian!:
   * hostility towards sex
   * assumption of perfect innocence
   * pessimism about or rejection of marriage
Line 37: Line 48:
Redemption - marriages can be repaired
 * if not, people can be repaired
 * divorce and remarriage?

==== Practical Considerations ====

divorce is a remedy, not an intrinsic good

to lose sight of the theology of marriage is to lose sight of the Xian view of marriage

NOT Xian!:
 * hostility towards sex
 * assumption of perfect innocence
 * pessimism about or rejection of marriage

==== Same Sex Marriage ====
== Same Sex Marriage ==
Line 60: Line 56:
=== 2. The Declaration of Purpose === = 2. The Declaration of Purpose =
Line 62: Line 58:
==== Biblical Foundation ==== == Biblical Foundation ==
Line 64: Line 60:
Draws heavily upon Genesis  * Draws heavily upon Genesis
 * A profound document - how do we interpret it? Stumbling block, or Milestone, for the human journey?
 * Adam and Eve
 * Women as property, cultural issues
Line 66: Line 65:
A profound document - how do we interpret it? Stumbling block, or Milestone, for the human journey? == Sexual Faithfulness ==
Line 68: Line 67:
Adam and Eve  * Xian view: Marriage or Celibacy (celibacy better!) Are these the only two?
 * Does marriage as "full expression of physical love" (i.e., "good sex") mean that other forms of sex are bad?
Line 70: Line 70:
Women as property, cultural issues == De-facto hetereo- and homo- partnerships ==
Line 72: Line 72:
==== Sexual Faithfulness ====  * Is faithfulness possible? Are these fruitful relationships? Is it about "what's in a name?"
Line 74: Line 74:
Xian view: Marriage or Celibacy (celibacy better!) Are these the only two?

Does marriage as "full expression of physical love" (i.e., "good sex") mean that other forms of sex are bad?

==== De-facto hetereo- and homo- partnerships ====

Is faithfulness possible? Are these fruitful relationships? Is it about "what's in a name?"

==== Children and the Purpose of Marriage ====
== Children and the Purpose of Marriage ==
Line 91: Line 83:
=== 3. The Word === = 3. The Word =
Line 93: Line 85:
=== 4. The Marriage === = 4. The Marriage =
Line 95: Line 87:
=== 5. Prayers === = 5. Prayers =
Line 97: Line 89:
=== 6. The Blessing === = 6. The Blessing =

> DiscussionPages

Discussion Page on Marriage

JohnHurst

contribution to discussion day, 25 Oct 2014

Background

  • Statement of UCA Theology about Marriage
  • Acknowledge Disagreements
  • Informed and Faithful discussion
  • Marriage Service liturgy is starting point
    1. The Gathering
    2. Declaration of Purpose
    3. The Word
    4. The Marriage
    5. Prayers
    6. The Blessing

Here tackle just the first two.

1. The Gathering

  • Marriage service is a service of worship
  • Also a witness to promises and commitment

Doctrine

  • Creation - marriage is the Christian context for procreation
  • Fall - marriages do fail
    • levels of failure: human joy, human sin, human brokenness
  • Redemption - marriages can be repaired
    • if not, people can be repaired
    • divorce and remarriage?

Practical Considerations

  • divorce is a remedy, not an intrinsic good
  • to lose sight of the theology of marriage is to lose sight of the Xian view of marriage
  • NOT Xian!:
    • hostility towards sex
    • assumption of perfect innocence
    • pessimism about or rejection of marriage

Same Sex Marriage

Yes

No

Creation

humans have "hardwired nature"

God created man and woman

Fallenness

all are fallen, none are perfect

same-sex is intrinsically fallen

Redemption

healing and transforming

healing and transforming ( ! )

loving relationships reflect a loving God

discipline of forgiveness

2. The Declaration of Purpose

Biblical Foundation

  • Draws heavily upon Genesis
  • A profound document - how do we interpret it? Stumbling block, or Milestone, for the human journey?
  • Adam and Eve
  • Women as property, cultural issues

Sexual Faithfulness

  • Xian view: Marriage or Celibacy (celibacy better!) Are these the only two?
  • Does marriage as "full expression of physical love" (i.e., "good sex") mean that other forms of sex are bad?

De-facto hetereo- and homo- partnerships

  • Is faithfulness possible? Are these fruitful relationships? Is it about "what's in a name?"

Children and the Purpose of Marriage

Anglican Prayer Book

Uniting Church

1. birth and nurture of children

1. mutual comfort and support

2. safe outlet for lust, NO fornication

2. safe outlet for lust, NO fornication

3. mutual comfort and support

3. birth and nurture of children

Child rearing has been decoupled from marriage through the (birth control) pill.

3. The Word

4. The Marriage

5. Prayers

6. The Blessing


CategoryCongregation

DiscussionMarriage (last edited 2014-10-25 02:12:31 by JohnHurst)